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Thanks to matesmaster.com I got into a long-distance serious romance with a beautiful woman from Eastern Europe, from Ukraine to be precise and I feel myself so happy that I am seriously intended to get married soon ( hopefully she has the same plans lol). I met Lidia on matesmaster.com friends and romance network and since that time I removed all my accounts from all the other international dating service. She's a doctor who lives in Chernigov, Ukraine, a country that I have never been before I met her for the first time. I even did not now a lot about it, just something in general and that is even more strange as I love that country almost as much as my own. Though we have already decided to be together in the nearest future, but since we are not together yet I can say that there are many disadvantages and some advantages in any long-distance relationship. The worst thing, of course, is that after we spent so much time over the net and then saw each other for the first time, we understood we need each other and we started missing each other and then we got that the most terrible stuff in our relationships was distance. It became a real obstacle as we're often separated for months and sometimes even more. At the moment as we are working on Lidia’s immigrants’ paper I have not seen her for almost a half of a year. There were even moments when the temptation aroused to look for somebody in my country, but I could never find anybody as great and caring and beautiful as my Lida. I remember the first time we discussed the issue of relocating after I proposed her and she accepted. But to those who are only considering such kinds of relationships, I would like to tell that there are definitely a lot of positive things that in our case outweighed the negatives. Internet dating service gives you a possibility to look for people from other places and broadens your choice. Then you got to know a personality before everything really starts, you find out that you have something in common, that you laugh at the same jokes and we like the same films. The distance and time was like a test of our relationship's strength and commitment. We did not do anything in a hurry, we had time to think over before writing or telling something and that is why we did not have any of those arguments as we could have if we lived next to each other. Those long term relationships taught us also to be patient and inventive, we sent each other little stuff for holidays to show we cared, but everything we sent something that should be something really special as we were so far away. Yes, my bills are high, and the tickets are pretty expensive but it does not matter much now as I am thinking all the time how wonderful it would be when we finally do get together. And I know we have still a lot to wait and to do to be finally together, but only now after I know I found her my life has got some sense and I am ready for everything to make it all a reality and I am really happy. Believe me love does make the world to go round, just stop and listen...it whispers to you…and it does not lie… Adrian, Canada and Lidia, Ukraine.